Baya Voce | Relationship Repair Expert | Columbia University on Instagram: "Straight talk no chaser: You can’t make someone change. Not by crying, explaining, staying longer, or trying harder. You can’t make them stop drinking. You can’t make them go to therapy. You can’t make them stay open when they shut down. Even if they do change for you it won’t last unless they want it for themselves. So if you’re doing everything right and nothing’s moving, that’s not about them anymore. That’s the part